Open Relationships / ENM and Polyamory Coaches

Looking for an Open Relationship, Polyamory, or Ethical Non-Monogamy Coach near you?

Select any coach profile to explore if they are a good personal fit for you, then contact them to set up an introductory meeting. Most of the below Open Relationship, Poly, or ENM Coaches see clients via Zoom or other video communication services, as well as in person.

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Open Relationships / ENM and Polyamory Coaches

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River

River is passionate about helping you find, keep, and nurture your most meaningful relationships. Her early dating struggles led her to devour relationship self-help books, starting when she was a...

Emily

Emily (she/her) is a Certified Somatica® Coach and Sexologist - with a big heart and a very dirty mind, who is passionately sex-positive in her work and play. She...

Claudia

Claudia is a Certified Somatica® Coach, based in Cornwall, UK. She works online and in person, supporting individuals and couples of all genders and orientations to create fulfilling relationships...

Sam

Welcome, I’m glad you’re here. If you’re seeking a life full of confidence, connection, & pleasure - you’re in the right place. I support individuals with: Getting in touch with...

Lauren

Lauren is sex & relationship coach in Lexington, KY, offering experiential intimacy coaching for couples and individuals. She brings over 20 years of experience, assisting clients in embodied connections as a trauma-informed...

Bethany

Bethany is a Somatica intimacy and relationship coach in the San Francisco Bay area. With empathy and vulnerability, she brings a creative approach to her coaching that allows her clients to...

Dani

Hi, I'm Dani - Certified Sex & Relationship Coach (Somatica®) and Sexologist (ABS) with a background of extensive training in sexual wellbeing, relationship dynamics, and the psychology of intimacy....

Rachel

Rachel is a Certified Somatica Coach who believes pleasure, connection, and playfulness are not luxuries — they’re necessities. Based in Cincinnati, Ohio (and online for the rest of the...

Cole

Cole is a nonbinary, Certified Somatica Coach in the Cupertino, San Francisco South Bay. Their deep expertise is in helping people live their authentic lives and find profound intimacy...

Sho-Sho

As a Chinese-American Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist and sex + relationship coach, Sho-Sho offers transformative coaching that centers on BIPOC men, women, couples, and poly/non-monogamous folks. She specializes in helping...

Lyuba

Lyuba is a relationship and sex coach in San Diego, CA. She believes that all people are hot and sexy by default. It’s only the taboo shaming culture around sexuality...

Brenna

Brenna is helping spread the transformative Somatica Method to the East Coast. She is a certified Somatica sex, intimacy and relationship coach, and mother to two teenagers. In her practice, she brings her...

Aili

Aili is a dating, intimacy and sex coach in Mumbai, India who specializes in relationship reinvention and being a dating surrogate for her clients. She/they are trained in the Somatica Method, are a Vipassana practitioner and...

Ilana

Ilana, LMT, ABS is a Certified Somatica Coach in Nevada City, CA. As a coach, tantra teacher, and licensed massage therapist she brings joy, depth, and embodied presence to...

Leandra

Leandra is a Certified Somatica® Coach in New York City. She works with individuals, couples, and polycules on anything under the umbrella of sex, relationships, intimacy, and dating. Her...

Alana

When we connect to our desires and take up space in the bodies we inhabit, something powerful happens — we ignite a spark that can light up every corner...

Mike

Hi - I'm Mike. I'm a sex & relationship coach in Berkeley, CA. I want to help you create a life full of unimaginably hot sex, thriving partnership, and...

Andre

Andre is an intimacy, sex, and relationship guide in Asheville, NC, and certified as a Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach. He believes in empowering people and helping them recognize their erotic potential. Andre...

Beth

I’m Beth, a Certified Somatica® Coach based in Denver, Colorado. I support individuals and couples in learning, practicing, and mastering the skills they need to create passionate and satisfying...

Susan

Susan has been a life, career, relationship and dating coach in Denver for over 15 years. Her mission is to embrace every person as whole and worthy of celebrating,...

Adam

Adam is a male intimacy coach who loves helping people discover what they want in intimate relationships and erotic expression – regardless of the cultural scripts they’ve been taught...

Roberta

Roberta is a sex and relationship coach, practicing in San Jose, CA, and Buffalo, West Virginia. She leads with curiosity and unconditional love. Her deepest desire is to liberate...

Mary

Warm, intuitive, and deeply present, Mary works with individuals and couples to create more authentic intimacy and a deeper connection to their desires. She meets clients exactly where they are...

Veronica

Veronica is a Certified Somatica intimacy, relationship and sex coach, practicing in the San Francisco Bay Area. Her passion is deeply connecting with others as a means to reflect, heal, and...

nsharâh

nsharâh challenges the idea that intimacy is something you simply figure out. For him, the ability to be with yourself and others authentically, honestly, and courageously is a practice...

Maggie

Maggie is an Intimacy and Relationship Coach in the Raleigh, North Carolina area, who helps people develop a deep and loving understanding of themselves in relationships. She works with clients to...

Vance

Vance is a Certified Somatica Coach based in Toronto, Canada. With a passion for connection and intimacy, he works with queer people socialized as men to work through shame to be their...

Digger

Digger, M.S., has been practicing as an LGBTQ / gay sex coach since 2016, and training in the Somatica Method since 2020. He has advanced education skills in sexuality, anatomy, physiology, charisma development, and non-violent communication,...

Tallulah

Tallulah (CHT, CMT, CSB) is a renowned Sex Educator. She is also a Certified Hakomi Therapist, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, and Certified Massage Therapist. She is trained in the Somatica Method. Somatic Therapy is...

Shari

Shari (she/her) is a holistic Certified Somatica Coach in Los Angeles. She combines her coaching with years of experience as an EFT therapist (Emotional Freedom Technique therapy). With these tools at...

Sky

Sky is a sex coach in Oakland who helps people across the sexuality and gender spectrum discover their core desires to live authentically and vibrantly. Using personal pleasure and real-time exercises...

Gretchen

Gretchen is a certified dating and relationship coach who helps people find greater joy in intimacy. Until her early 40s, Gretchen struggled with dating. She had only had sex a...

Bethany

I’ve been making people uncomfortable by openly talking about human sexuality for decades. My dentist can confirm. Now I help humans navigate: Rediscovering desire after divorce Kink exploration and long-held...

Laura

Laura is a Desire/Arousal and Libido Mismatch specialist in Asheville, NC. Her mission is to help women and couples have stress-free intimacy. She will help you discover your authentic...

Rachel

Rachel is a Certified Somatica Coach in Nevada City, CA. Her search for embodied belonging has led her to yoga, experiential sex and relationship coaching, dance, bodywork, and the...

April

Warm, approachable, and experienced, April works with couples and individuals to achieve a satisfying sex life and connection to their body. She meets clients where they are on their...

Ashley

Ashley is a Certified Somatica Coach in Los Angeles. She also has certifications as Dominatrix, and Sex Educator by The American Board of Sexologists. Ashley specializes in working with men on sexual performance...

Tynesia

Tynesia (tah-niece-ee-yuh) is a certified relationship coach in Baltimore, MD, with specialized training from the Somatica® Institute. Her mission revolves around empowering individuals to establish and nurture healthy boundaries. She...

Chloé

Chloé is a somatic sexologist in Barcelona, Spain. They are endlessly fascinated by the connection between mind, body, and pleasure and the ways our society has repressed that, especially...

Spirit

spirit is a rEvolutionary Somatica practitioner, incorporating elements of sensuality, sexuality, spirituality and the various “realities” (our society and daily practical challenges) to holistically obtain desired effects of eroticism...

Tumi

Tumi (they/them) is a somatic sex and relationship coach in South Africa. Their deepest desire is to live in a world where everybody is free to be their most authentic selves....

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What Does a Poly Coach Do?

No matter if you’re in a committed relationship or just want to hunt a unicorn – a Poly/ENM/Open Relationship coach can help you figure out if an open or poly relationship model is right for you and your partner, and support you in navigating the complexities of non-monogamous relationships.

This type of coach is skilled at providing you with guidance around interpersonal communications, trust and boundary-setting, and the various open relationship definitions and rules.

You’ll learn effective strategies for managing jealousy, balancing multiple relationships, and fostering emotional honesty. In your sessions, you’ll learn conflict resolution techniques, intimacy exercises, and self-awareness practices.

With your poly coach’s guidance, you’ll be able to build a harmonious, connected, and thriving relationship dynamic for years to come.

What Is the Difference Between a Poly Therapist and a Poly Coach?

A poly therapist addresses emotional and psychological issues within ethical non-monogamous relationships. They will help you explore deep-seated feelings, past traumas, and mental health issues, while working with you on emotional resilience.

A poly coach, on the other hand, focuses on providing you with practical guidance and relationship skills. They give you strategies for better communication, boundary-setting, and conflict resolution.

Both professionals can support your journey, but with very distinct approaches.

How Do I Chose the Best ENM / Polyamory Coach For Me?

Many coaches are seeing clients online, but if it’s important for you to see your chosen practitioner in person, you can find an ENM / Poly coach near you via our location-based directory.

Frequently, people also prefer to work with a coach of a specific race, gender or sexual orientation. Our directory offers nonbinary, LGBTQIA, trans, male, female, and BIPOC coaches.