LGBTQ+ & Gay Sex Coaches

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LGBTQ+ & Gay Sex Coaches

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Sky

Sky is a sex coach in Oakland who helps people across the sexuality and gender spectrum discover their core desires to live authentically and vibrantly. Using personal pleasure and real-time exercises...

Digger

Digger, M.S., has been practicing as an LGBTQ / gay sex coach since 2016, and training in the Somatica Method since 2020. He has advanced education skills in sexuality, anatomy, physiology, charisma development, and non-violent communication,...

Steph

Steph (she/her) is a Certified Somatica® Coach and sex, intimacy, and relationship coach. She is devoted to helping people release shame, embrace vulnerability, and awaken their sensuality so they...

Spirit

spirit is a rEvolutionary Somatica practitioner, incorporating elements of sensuality, sexuality, spirituality and the various “realities” (our society and daily practical challenges) to holistically obtain desired effects of eroticism...

Vance

Vance is a Certified Somatica Coach based in Toronto, Canada. With a passion for connection and intimacy, he works with queer people socialized as men to work through shame to be their...

Roberta

Roberta is a sex and relationship coach, practicing in San Jose, CA, and Buffalo, West Virginia. She leads with curiosity and unconditional love. Her deepest desire is to liberate...

Laura

Laura is a Desire/Arousal and Libido Mismatch specialist in Asheville, NC. Her mission is to help women and couples have stress-free intimacy. She will help you discover your authentic...

Cole

Cole is a nonbinary, Certified Somatica Coach in the Cupertino, San Francisco South Bay. Their deep expertise is in helping people live their authentic lives and find profound intimacy...

Mary

Warm, intuitive, and deeply present, Mary works with individuals and couples to create more authentic intimacy and a deeper connection to their desires. She meets clients exactly where they are...

Shari

Shari (she/her) is a holistic Certified Somatica Coach in Los Angeles. She combines her coaching with years of experience as an EFT therapist (Emotional Freedom Technique therapy). With these tools at...

Sam

Welcome, I’m glad you’re here. If you’re seeking a life full of confidence, connection, & pleasure - you’re in the right place. I support individuals with: Getting in touch with...

Mike

Hi - I'm Mike. I'm a sex & relationship coach in Berkeley, CA. I want to help you create a life full of unimaginably hot sex, thriving partnership, and...

Veronica

Veronica is a Certified Somatica intimacy, relationship and sex coach, practicing in the San Francisco Bay Area. Her passion is deeply connecting with others as a means to reflect, heal, and...

Tumi

Tumi (they/them) is a somatic sex and relationship coach in South Africa. Their deepest desire is to live in a world where everybody is free to be their most authentic selves....

Emily

Emily (she/her) is a Certified Somatica® Coach and Sexologist - with a big heart and a very dirty mind, who is passionately sex-positive in her work and play. She...

Andre

Andre is an intimacy, sex, and relationship guide in Asheville, NC, and certified as a Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach. He believes in empowering people and helping them recognize their erotic potential. Andre...

Susan

Susan has been a life, career, relationship and dating coach in Denver for over 15 years. Her mission is to embrace every person as whole and worthy of celebrating,...

Chloé

Chloé is a somatic sexologist in Barcelona, Spain. They are endlessly fascinated by the connection between mind, body, and pleasure and the ways our society has repressed that, especially...

Bethany

Bethany is a Somatica intimacy and relationship coach in the San Francisco Bay area. With empathy and vulnerability, she brings a creative approach to her coaching that allows her clients to...

Janet

Janet is a Somatica-trained sex and relationship coach and somatic sexologist near Victoria, BC. First and foremost, she is passionate about helping people live more integrated and joyful lives. She has...

Bethany

I’ve been making people uncomfortable by openly talking about human sexuality for decades. My dentist can confirm. Now I help humans navigate: Rediscovering desire after divorce Kink exploration and long-held...

Claudia

Claudia is a Certified Somatica® Coach, based in Cornwall, UK. She works online and in person, supporting individuals and couples of all genders and orientations to create fulfilling relationships...

Rachel

Rachel is a Certified Somatica Coach in Nevada City, CA. Her search for embodied belonging has led her to yoga, experiential sex and relationship coaching, dance, bodywork, and the...

Alana

When we connect to our desires and take up space in the bodies we inhabit, something powerful happens — we ignite a spark that can light up every corner...

April

Warm, approachable, and experienced, April works with couples and individuals to achieve a satisfying sex life and connection to their body. She meets clients where they are on their...

Tynesia

Tynesia (tah-niece-ee-yuh) is a certified relationship coach in Baltimore, MD, with specialized training from the Somatica® Institute. Her mission revolves around empowering individuals to establish and nurture healthy boundaries. She...

Ilana

Ilana, LMT, ABS is a Certified Somatica Coach in Nevada City, CA. As a coach, tantra teacher, and licensed massage therapist she brings joy, depth, and embodied presence to...

Megan

Megan is an intimacy coach and trauma resolution guide in Sacramento, CA. She is a Certified Somatica Coach and a Brainspotting Practitioner. Her work is trauma-informed through the NARM Institute and she has been trained in Somatic...

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How Can an LGBTQ-Inclusive Coach Help You?

If you’re gay, queer, bi, trans, or non-binary, it can be difficult to find a mental health professional who fully understands your specific challenges, particularly around intimacy and relationships.

The LGBTQ+-inclusive coaches in this directory are different. Not only are they highly trained at creating safe spaces without judgement, the Somatica Training has also prepared them to aptly navigate the various aspects related to gender identity, transition, relationship issues, societal shaming etc.

Here are some key aspects of how a LGBTQ+ / gay sex coach can help you:

Supporting you in exploring and understanding your sexual orientation or gender identity. This may involve discussions about gender dysphoria, self-discovery, and personal reflection.
Helping you build self-acceptance and confidence, and embracing you authentic self. Your coach will assist you in navigating the challenges of living authentically in a world that may not always be accepting.
Teaching you to communicate with family, friends, partners, and colleagues about your sexual orientation or gender identity.
Helping you feel safe and empowered when you go out into the dating world.
Empowering you to advocate for your own rights and needs, which can include suggesting resources and strategies for dealing with discrimination and prejudice.
Assisting you with emotional struggles, social isolation, or medical concerns.
Providing guidance and support to transgender people throughout the transition process, which can include medical, social, and legal aspects. They help you set goals, cope with challenges, and celebrate achievements during your journey.

Ultimately, your LGBTQ+-inclusive / gay sex coach’s goal is to help you pursue your authentic desires and create supportive, loving, and sexy relationships.