Myths
& Misconceptions
About Orgasm
...A touch can spark interest, but it is the power of the mind,
which translates and transforms those sensations into the body
experience, and provokes orgasm. Sex and its rewards are
created in the mind and it is the mind, which produces the
cravings and needs satisfaction. The body simply reacts to the
mental stimulation and affects. So, it is there that our
journey must begin and through the power and brilliance of the
mind we experience the ultimate end.
Sex and orgasm
are born of the
mind and live there.
...Men all too often fall prey to the fallacies, thinking that to touch
a woman’s body or that allowing her to show attention to theirs,
will offer up their just rewards.
Touching the mind is a much more
powerful solution. Mental foreplay and intellectual stimulation will
spark more intense interest and will more efficiently and
effectively motivate and inspire the desired affect. Touch can only
achieve the ultimate response if the mind is at the helm...
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Women hold the
power of sex.
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Tantra
Massage
William Martin
...Tantra is a letting go, a sensual journey that can lead to
astounding joy. Striving to be open and honest, it is an uplifting
but disciplined approach to the body. It permits - encourages - a
freedom to experience, experiment, enjoy and openly delight in our
body in a way that we in the West can find in turns, alarming,
exhilarating, shaming and perhaps ultimately liberating.
The results of this openness, allied to it’s emphasis on the journey not
the destination being important, can be astounding for those used to
concentrating on the journey’s end (i.e. ejaculation for the man
which it discourages, and, possibly orgasm for the woman). It
allows time for us to focus on our partner and their body’s varied
sensations.
Tantra has few if any, taboos, provided...
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Did You Know?
Men sleep
better with their partner beside them;
women sleep worse.
Source: Sleep and Biological Rhythms James
Maas, Ph.D.
Got a nightstand?
Got a pair?
According to Mark Ainley,
Feng Shui Consultant, if you have one nightstand, it will
provide clarity and support for only one
individual, hence not offering the
invitation or the space for another.
Read: one-night-stand.
Matching lamps and nightstands may anchor
the potential for long-term relationships. Do you have two nightstands, or two lamps
of similar size, but different design?
Think: separate but equal,
differentiation.
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