
Take to the floor - Bed mattresses
absorb and diffuse sexual energy, so take to
the floor. Put down several layers of
bedding or a thin mat for comfort. I bet
your experience on the floor will bring much
more sensation and excitement. Above is a
great mat from
Liberator.

Give it a rest - During extended
lovemaking, your erection comes and goes, as
it
should - an erection is a cardiovascular
event. Blood entering your penis carries
oxygen and hormones. During lovemaking, the oxygen is depleted, the
hormones are chemically transformed, and
waste products build up. When your penis is
exhausted, involuntary
ejaculation may occur. When you allow your erection to subside, the old blood
is re-moved with the
waste pro-ducts. When your penis is perky
again,
fresh blood flows in, bringing new oxygen and hormones,
so you can delay ejaculation naturally. The
Taoists recommend that you allow your
erection to go down every 20 minutes to
allow the blood to recirculate.
Worth a
look!
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Could your pleasuring time use some variety? Here's
a technique that is relaxing, connecting, and may be very
arousing!
1) Create a comfortable space and plan to pleasure for at least
20 minutes. Make it special - candles, flowers, soft
music.
2) Ask your partner to lie down on their stomach, unclothed to
whatever degree works for them, and make sure they are warm.
3) Take a minute or so to synchronize your breathing with your
lover's. You may also want to make a silent intention.
4) Starting with the upper back, use only your finger tips to
stroke your partner as lightly and slowly as you can - as though
you were trying to connect with only the upper most cell.
(You may want to practice by stroking your own arm moving
only the hair follicles.)
However slowly you are
stroking, cut that speed in half. The keys to this
technique are light and slow.
When you have stroked
the entire backside, ask your partner if they would like to
turn over. But wait! Now is the time to
assess your partner's energy. Are they asleep or almost?
Or are they becoming aroused? There are no 'wrongs' - just be
conscious of matching their energy. Do not attempt to arouse, if
they are headed toward slumber. Honor their body's wisdom.
Loving Touch
incorporates many stroke techniques, though the primary focus is
on light caress. When we experience a gentle caress, sensation
is registered in our C-fibers, or nerves that detect pleasurable
sensations. A message is then...
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Is Facebook in
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Facebook is in the spotlight again. Or is it the doghouse?
Apparently, many ex-couples are pointing fingers at FB as the cause of
their breakup.
You may have experienced the good, the bad, and the ugly of
participating in an online social network, but ultimately the
threat is not the technology - it is the choices you make online
and offline - in cyberspace and real life. Consider these
safe-guards:
● Discuss with your partner the scope and boundaries of your
social networking. Is joining sex related groups out of
bounds? What is the limit of personal information that you
will share? Are you both comfortable if the other chats
with new FB friends of the opposite gender?
● Don't post negative information about your partner or your
relationship.
● Choose your friends wisely. Ask: Would my partner be ok
with me befriending this person? And remember, you can always
unfriend.
Is your online friendship too friendly? Find out with this
free online quiz from infidelity expert
Dr. Shirley Glass.
Your online dating
profile
by Judy Barton
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...Your online portrait should appropriately state who
you are and clearly define what you seek. Your profile
is you, and needs to reflect your glowing, positive
qualities. The energies you emit through your writing
will attract like energies.
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J
Warmly,
Pam Babbitt, Editor
Sex Coach - Bliss Advocate
Email me 888.719.7119
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