Danielle Harel

Dr. Danielle Harel is the the co-creator of the Somatica® Method and the co-founder of the Somatica® Institute. She has a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality (DHS), a graduate degree in Clinical Social Work (MSW), and a Bachelors (BA) degree in Psychology and Educational Counseling.

As a somatic sexologist, professor, and author, Danielle has devoted the last 20 years to resolving her client’s sexual challenges, training sex & relationship coaches, and empowering people. Harnessing her extensive training in sexology, psychology, and body-based modalities like Hakomi, attachment theory, character theory, and neuro-patterning, she guides people in reaching their fullest personal, professional, and sexual potential.

In addition to being faculty at Esalen and teaching the Advanced Somatica Training and Mastery Classes, Danielle has most recently embraced the adventure of co-producing the TV series Here She Comes – an episodic based on the Somatica Method (currently in production).

Before that, she published original research on Orgasmic Birth, and co-authored 3 books with Celeste Hirschman: Cockfidence, Making Love Real, and Coming Together.

She has also written extensively on sex, relationships, and dating, and is frequently quoted as an expert resource in publications.

To everything she does, Danielle brings her unparalleled passion, depth, intuition, and magnetizing personality.

Articles

How to Feel Sexy

How To Feel Sexy

Historically, the pressure to have a “perfect” body has been mostly put on women. More recently however, it has become relentless for both women...
Young couple talking about breastfeeding and sex

Breastfeeding and Sex

Congratulations, new mama! So, you’ve brought home your baby. Life is blissfully happy. But – what about sex? Sex?! What’s that? Do breastfeeding and sex even belong in the...
sex with the lights on

Sex with the Lights On – or Off?

You've seen them. Those old television shows and movies where the first kiss happens, the lights go out - and we are supposed to...
Relationship coach training for certification

How to Become a Relationship Coach

There is not one definitive answer to the question of how to become a relationship coach. Relationship coach certification is just one way to...

How Do I Find the Best Professional Sex Coach For Me?

If there is one thing a professional sex coach knows, it is that people are different. This means that a professional sex coach (or sex...
Young couple learning how to have fun on a date

How to Rekindle Joy and Have Fun with Embodied Dating

In this modern dating landscape, navigating the path to finding a meaningful connection can sometimes feel like an arduous task. Almost as if dating...