Wanting and waiting? »
Are you WAITING to get what you want in your sex life? Well, you might be waiting forever. Waiting, whether patiently or impatiently, doesn't create change. Add heaps of hope or tons of knowledge and you are still not creating change. Waiting lacks action, energy, and dynamic exchange. Waiting shuts off the flow of potential. If you would
Marijuana and sex »
Marijuana and Sex: Surprising Results of This Blogger’s Informal Survey by Michael Castleman in Psychology Today A year ago, I posted about marijuana's contradictory effects on lovemaking, an impact notably different from other recreational drugs. The sexual effects of alcohol, cocaine, narcotics, and meth-- you name it--are well-documented
Are you sex-positive? »
Sex Positive! Anonymous So I went to the doctors to be tested. And sure enough, the tests came back positive. I was sex-positive. I have sex. I decided I'd better go to all of my lovers and warn them that I was diagnosed as being sex-positive. They seemed strangely unperturbed by this news. Then I found out that every single one of them had
The conversational kiss »
Wendy Strgar, Lovologist, and Founder of www.GoodCleanLove.com, shares about the action, energy and communication of kissing. “A kiss can be a comma, a question mark or an exclamation point. That’s basic spelling that every woman ought to know.” Jeanne Bourgeois If ever there was a communication mechanism that predicted the
More sex or better sex? »
Be sure to read the last paragraph of this excellent article - you may be surprised! The Joy of Researching the Health Benefits of Sex by Melinda Beck, www.online.wsj.com Is sex good for your health—or is that just a fantasy? A flurry of small studies suggest that sex is as good for your health as vitamin D and broccoli. It not only
HOT SEX TIP – Talk her hot »
Talk her hot Excerpted from How To Please a Woman by Pam Babbitt Download for FREE! Research has repeatedly shown that men are more stimulated by the visual, and women are more often stimulated by the auditory. When your lover hears your kind, loving, or erotic words, the heart connection is amplified, enabling her to more fully access her
Sexy spring »
“In the spring a young man’s fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love,” wrote Alfred Lord Tennyson. Singles emerge from hibernation eager to connect in the spring. Couples cuddle and canoodle with bare skin and sweaty bods. Springtime invites a sensual celebration. According to one of my favorite experts on love and lust - Helen
Speaking of genitals »
Learning V-Speak by Wendy Strgar Founder of Good Clean Love Check out her book Love That Works – A Guide to Enduring Intimacy. For all the sexual freedoms we claim in our culture, the amount of real conversation about all things sexual is almost non-existent. Formal sex education is limited to body part naming if it exists at all; in many
Women are complaining… »
Listen up guys! Women have a common complaint: Men focus on their genitals too quickly. Your lover is multi-potential when it comes to receiving pleasure, so take the time to discover new erogenous zones and stimulate her entire body before moving to the genitals. As a general guideline, consider pleasuring her entire body for two-thirds of
The Yoga of Sex Muscles »
The Yoga of Sex Muscles by Suzie Heuman, Founder-Tantra.com Today's PC muscle exercises, or Kegel exercises, are not the ones your mother might have done. Oh no, they've been upgraded a whole lot so it's surprising that they aren't considered one of the "yogas". The truth is that they are a type of yoga. Mindfulness, along with these physical
