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How Can a Man Be Multi-Orgasmic!?
Is it possible... is it fantastic or is it draining to have multiple orgasms as a man? Guys are often spent after one - it takes a lot of fuel to procreate or play with the power of pleasure and creation. Without the recirculation of sexual energy, multiple orgasms could wear a man out. Sports Coaches often recommend that the team members abstain from having sex before an important game, to conserve their energy. And rightly so, it takes a while for a man to replenish his energies after ejaculating. On the other hand... It's possible that a man can have multiple orgasms WITHOUT ejaculating. That’s the energizing way to be a multi-orgasmic man. Empowered male multiple orgasms and repeated ejaculations and are NOT the same. Guys, you can learn to ride the orgasmic waves without ejaculating, and instead recirculate your energy in order to have multiple orgasms, without losing your drive. You don't need to ejaculate each time to feel satisfied. And you wouldn't want to because excessive ejaculations can be depleting to your body's vital energies. Instead of releasing, you can learn to tap into the creative life forces charged in each wad. And you can choose to gather the energy and internalize it to an injaculation, instead of ejaculation. Then collect and cultivate your life essence as the sacred seeds of life that it is! You can learn to hold on to it and ride multiples orgasms with your partner. The hormones and pheromones that are released during enlightened sexual loving, linger long in our bodies and fill both partners with the purifying essence of love. Orgasms can be energizing, and being sexually fulfilled can raise one's self-confidence in ways that are reflected in all areas of our lives.
So how is it possible?
Well, first of all it's not about holding back the orgasm as most men might think and probably 'try' to do. It's actually a process of internalizing the energies of pleasure causing the orgasm to flow in and up, rather than out. Then it becomes a continuous stream of pleasurable energy which flows inward and rejuvenates you. Men share that in many ways it feels like a great friction orgasm - and better - without the ejaculatory release or loss of energy! It is also more satisfying for women as well as men. In fact, this inner streaming is actually energizing, and in cultures such as Tantra or Taoism, it is practiced as a way of cultivating one's life force. Sexual energy is pure creative life force. So if you learn to master this energy, you will become more creative! That’s a nice bonus! During ordinary 'friction sex', a man experiences orgasm and ejaculation as one and the same. But in truth they are separate functions which are activated by opposite sides of the nervous system. Although they often do occur simultaneously, it is possible that a man can experience orgasm and ejaculation as separate and independent of the other. The sympathetic nervous system sparks the release of orgasm. It is also the part of the nervous system that deals with fear, fight or flight. So when you're worried about coming too soon, you automatically trigger that part of your nervous system which causes ejaculation. It becomes a vicious cycle. Man is hardwired that way so that in nature he can ensure he plants he's seed before a predator is on his tail. Unless you're out in the wild, you don't have to worry about that.
Most men have experienced ejaculation without much pleasure at least once in their life. That occurs when he releases before the energy has a chance to build up and create a much bigger event. In my coaching sessions, I teach men to expand their consciousness which will raise their pleasure thresholds creating more space for pleasure to expand, before and during the finale. This requires being still at times and present enough to just feel arousal without a lot of movement - feel the inner smile of erotic awareness awakening. If at first it may seem strange or difficult to do, just marinate in the arousal without doing. Focus on feeling and relaxing into it rather than trying to control it. You may discover a deeper and more subtle range of sensations - an erotic realm of sensual awareness that can expand before going over the top, which helps a man last indefinitely. And the best part is - it's always new! From this state, a man will have a much greater understanding of a woman's orgasmic ability. He will experience sensations very similar to what his partner feels, which can enable both partners to come together more easily and regularly. Men who have tantric multiple orgasms discover they can experience pleasurable sensations similar and often simultaneous to those that women feels during multiple orgasms, without slipping. Men often report feelings of lightness and tingling that radiates throughout their bodies - an aliveness that can last for days! So Tantric orgasms can occur multiple times for men and leave them feeling better than when they started. Usually a man is finished once he climaxes. It's especially frustrating for women who know intuitively that there's more, even if they've not experienced it yet. For men who have not yet cultivated their sexual energy experience, this occurs even more so as they age and their hormone levels decline. Men who ejaculate too frequently loose a significant amount of nutrients and vital life forces. Plus, sleep hormones are released from the brain; which makes matters worse. Interestingly, the root of the word 'orgasm' is Greek, and it originally meant 'a fullness or ripeness that can occur in any organ or any part of the body.' This is quite different from the standard definition of orgasm today, yet remarkably like the Tantric view. A Tantric orgasm is not the peak that occurs at the end of sex. Rather it is a high state of aroused awareness that can occur literally anywhere and everywhere, throughout the body! Through Tantric practices of deep relaxation and focused mind, as a man becomes Multi-Orgasmic, he also can experience full body orgasms. Men can learn how to accomplish this by being receptive to the energy of arousal and thus focus on becoming fully aroused, while remaining relaxed the same time. In addition, the longer both men and women linger in this state, the more energy and vitality they are able to absorb and be revitalized by. When surfing, you can’t control the ocean, but you can connect with it and skillfully enjoy the ride. Similarly, you can't ‘control’ orgasms -- but with practice and patience, you can learn to ride them and experience unimaginable pleasures! Once you've mastered this, you can maintain high levels of pleasure for extended periods of time; satisfying both you and your partner! Sustained high levels of pleasure can leave you feeling rejuvenated and energized in the afterglow. When ejaculation does occur, especially after a high orgasmic connection, it should be released with conscience. If a man 'plants his seed' with conscious intention, it becomes infused with creative life forces. Intend to create a fulfilling life.
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parasympathetic nervous system is stimulated by a peaceful mind and deep
relaxation. Conversely once a man is relaxed and feeling safe, his
parasympathetic nervous system is activated - which can allow him to last
longer with ease, instead of strain or effort.
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