
Tantric Sex Tips - 7 Ways to Please Your Lover
Crystal Dawn Morris, Tantra
Teacher
Tantra is a spiritual path that embraces sexuality as a doorway to
the Divine. If you experience love making as a living prayer and see
our beloved as a God or Goddess, then sex can take you beyond the
world of form, into the formless mystical realms. Here are 7 Tantric
tips to help you turn sex into a spiritual practice.
Connected Breathing
Before making love, take time to breathe together and connect your
energy. Practice slow belly breathing while gazing into each others'
eyes. Do this practice until you feel
the energy flowing
between you. Connect your energy to your lover's energy begin-ning at
the base of the spine and moving up to the heart.
Share How You Like to Be Loved
Take turns telling your lover exactly how you like to be loved. Be
specific. Show them where and how to touch you. You may even want to
demonstrate by touching yourself as they watch. Describe how you
like to be kissed, if you like your hair pulled, describe a favorite
fantasy, etc.
Kissing
and Biting the Neck
The neck is a sensitive and exciting erogenous zone. Explore the
whole neck and throat area using various types of kisses, nibbles,
nips and bites. Take direction from your lover as to what they like.
See if you can bring your lover to orgasm by only stimulating their
neck.
Embody a Particular God or Goddess
Dress as a particular God or Goddess, such as Krishna and Radha,
the Hindu God and Goddess of Love. Embody their qualities and
imagine how it would be to make love to each other as this God and
Goddess. Then play out your roles as "Divine Lovers."
Erotic Massage
Give your beloved an erotic massage. Take your time, use long slow
strokes, and go slow. Discover new ways to give them pleasure. Help
them expand their "pleasure body" by using, the 3 Keys of Sky
Dancing Tantra, breath, sound and movement.
Recite Erotic Poetry
Find poetry that turns you on. I like Rumi, Hafiz, and Kabir. Spend
time reading erotic poetry aloud to your lover. Write your lover an
erotic or ecstatic poem and recite it to him/her. Make up a Haiku. Let
language massage your soul.
Be a Love Artist
Stretch yourself and discover new ways to love as you never have
before. Be a canvass for love to play upon. Know you can not fail as
a love artist. Humans are love in form. Allow yourself to be
inspired and share your vision with others.
Tantra is an ancient spiritual path that embraces all areas of life
as a path to awakening. Humans need to be touched and feel love.
Sexuality is one way to connect to your life force energy and enter
ecstatic realms. Learning to give and receive pleasure is healthy,
fun and bonding. Practice loving yourself and others daily. Spread
the joy and create a better world.