The answer is a definite yes. With proper stimulation of the G-spot
or “Goddess-spot,” women can ejaculate a fluid from ducts located
around the urethra. The G-spot is located in the front wall of the
vagina under the pubic bone. This is a spongy area two
inches or
more inside the yoni or vagina, depending on the size of the yoni
and the location of the clitoris. It is actually the “South Pole” of
the clitoris.
Female ejaculation was documented in ancient China and India where
Goddess-spot massage was a common Tantric sex technique. Tantric
texts call the liquid produced amrita, or “sweet nectar.” It is a
protein-based fluid, found to be chemically different from urine. It
is believed to have great healing properties.
This knowledge is slowly coming to the awareness of non-Tantric
people like Dr. Mitchell Levine, a gynecologist/obstetrician at the
Women Care clinic, in Arlington, who declares that women do
ejaculate. He believes that the hush-hush aura around the subject
does not help women or men. He believes that is should become common
knowledge.
Sexuality, and especially women’s sexuality, does not receive much
attention in medical school. In fact, one female gynecologist
approached for this story declined comment, admitting not to know
enough about the subject.
Our in so many other ways advanced western culture is badly informed
about human sensuality. Medical encyclopedias still do not mention
female ejaculation. There is some information, however, in The
Complete Guide to Women’s Health.
The quantity of amrita is not indicative of how much the woman
enjoys her release, and the experience of female ejaculation varies
from woman to woman. Therefore, please men, don’t make the quantity
or intensity of G-spot orgasms an issue.
Some woman I’ve worked with say they experience intense pleasurable
feelings of release and often ejaculate three to nine times or more
during one session of sex, each ejaculatory orgasm giving them more
pleasure than the previous one. Some dribble a small amount of
fluid; others soak the sheets.
Some women get concerned that they’re urinating, and they need to be
reassured that this is not the case. It is amrita they secrete, not
urine. In fact amrita does not smell or taste like urine.
The
G-spot itself has been a subject of controversy since its
“discovery” in 1944 by gynecologist
Ernst Grafenberg. The “G” in the
G-spot stands for Grafenberg. In the ’60s, sexologists
Masters and
Johnson announced that female orgasms occurred primarily through
stimulation of
the clitoris, not the vagina, where the G-spot is
found. The G Spot (Holt, Rinehart, and Winston), a 1982 book
by Beverly Whipple, Alice Ladas, and John Perry, refuted this claim
and provides ample evidence that the G-spot exists. My colleague,
Dr. Gary Schubach, wrote a very enlightening
thesis on the G-spot.
Some feminists fear that widespread knowledge about female
ejaculation will burden women with one more “trick” they must master
in bed to feel fully orgasmic. While this is a true concern, I think
that withholding knowledge is not the right approach. Educating
women about their birthright to full enjoyment of their bodies is a
positive approach.
Tantric approaches do not put any pressure on performance neither
for males nor for females. In Tantra what is most important is the
deep heart to heart connection and caring between the lovers while
they experience the pleasure in lovemaking. The goal is connection
and deepening intimacy, not performance.
With all due respect to Dr. Ernest Grafenberg - women had
already discovered the
G-spot.
Pam Babbitt,
Editor
SexCoach
