Wrestling With Your
Mate:
A Novel Approach
to Firing Up Your Relationship
Dr. Ted Crawford
Have you thought of exciting novel ideas for heating up your
relationship, love life, or nights in the bedroom? Have you tried the
obvious ways of enticing your mate to get them in the romantic mood? A
great dinner and cuddling doesn't always work. You've slipped into your
finest sexy teddy and modeled your assets only to find
him more
interested in the football game on the tube. You've caressed him with
the greatest slow massage with soft music in the background and the
candles lit only to have him fall asleep before he can reciprocate.
Sound familiar?
Throw them a curve. Sometimes creating an activity clearly and
completely out of the norm and off the cuff will
prove to be an exciting and erotic escape to discovery and relationship
enhancement. Here is something you may want to try to get your blood
flowing.
Most males and females have a competitive streak in them and it will
definitely surface when one engages in a wrestling match; even with your
lover. Whether you admit it or not, we all like to win and wrestling
will bring out the best in every individual, male or female. I know of a
few couples who have already experimented with it and even continue to
do so once they have tried it because they find it ideal at relieving
stress and channeling that stress and energy into something physical and
satisfying.
So how to you go about bringing up the subject to your spouse or
significant other? If you find that asking your mate "Do you want to
wrestle" perhaps weird and awkward, here's one suggestion. There are
numerous ways of going about it, but try straddling him or her and
pinning their arms down while they are lying on the couch or bed. Ask
them what they are going to do now. That is sure to start it off, unless
your partner is a complete dud. Take it from there. Most men (believe it
or not) relish the fact that the female is taking the role of the
aggressor, and being the competitive animals they are; will usually try
to reverse it. Tell him "Let's see what you've got!" If he responds like
most men will, you will start wrestling.
If
you really try to control and pin your partner and he or she does the
same, this can be a very rigorous and exhilarating experience. Taking it
a bit further from here with a little imagination can also be fun and
sensual. Applying baby oil to each other prior to your wrestling match
can be quite erotic and stimulating as well as a lot of slippery fun.
Just make sure you protect the furniture and carpet with plastic
sheeting that you can purchase in the paint department at your local
hardware store. An added bonus is that the oil is great for the skin.
So be creative. As long as you set guidelines and do not employ holds or
maneuvers that may injure your partner, wrestling can be a very
rewarding and erotic experience for both sexes. Try something new and
out of the ordinary to spice up your relationship and see what happens
after that. I'm sure that you both will find it to be a well worthwhile
and fun activity, great exercise, and a "warm up" to better things
later.
Ted Crawford has a website devoted
to helping patients find reliable information and products to enhance
and improve their sexual lives and relationships.
