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Honey bee with performance anxiety - "Tonight's the night."

             Performance anxiety?

 

When we consider some of the "natural" sexual habits of animals, those human sexual behaviors which are often judged as "unnatur­al," may pale by comparison. 
 

The drone honeybee waits his whole life to hear, "Tonight's the night!" And when the queen opens her sting chamber to receive him, he explodes and falls to the ground. 

A male African antelope will continue to mate until he drops from exhaustion.

Hamsters can have sex up to 75 times a day.

You've probably heard of the cannibalistic female praying man­tis, who will bite off the head of her mate, sometimes even be­fore mating begins.  Being headless, it seems, is not enough to deter the male - he will grope his way to completion.

Porpoises have been known to engage in group sex.

The current record for the longest rattlesnake mating session is 22.75 hours.

 

 

 

 

 

And lastly, there's those bonobo monkeys who are 98.6 percent ge­netically identical to humans.   Sex is nearly a constant activity in bonobo social circles - every kind of sex.  These happy apes use sex to alle­viate tension, to socially bond, for erotic pleasure, as well as for repro­duction. Bonobo monkey - Make Love Not War


Researchers believe that
the low level of conflict in the bonobo society is a direct result of their highly-sexual lifestyle.

"Make love not war" seems to resonate for those blissed-out bonobos.

Our Sex Coaching Political Action Committee has voted to stifle its collective voice regarding aggression, conflict, war, politics, and lovemaking ... for now.


Pam Babbitt, Editor-Sex Coach