Dear Dr. Patti,
What is more important for the woman: The length or thickness of a man’s
penis? -
Curious
Shortie
Dear
Curious Shortie,
Science tells us that the average length of an erect human penis is
5.5-6 inches; and the thickness, or girth, is about 4” around.
Most women report that although length can be an issue (either
too short or too long), the girth is what matters most. Think fat cigar,
even a stubby, will do. Yes, it’s that feeling of what we in sexology
name “containment” or the sensation of fullness, or something hitting
the side walls of her v-jay-jay that makes her feel good inside.
Despite
all the fuss
over penis size
(the #1 question among men, btw)
it’s not
what you have,
it is how you use it, guys.
Different studies show that 3
out of 4 women need direct or indirect clitoral, not vaginal,
stimulation to experience orgasm. Most women may enjoy penile
penetrative sex, but for their extreme satisfaction to be fulfilled they
usually need some licking, stroking, rubbing or jiving on, around, over
or under the clitoral head. So, let go of your troubles about penis
size.
Instead, focus on how to be the best lover to her that you can.
You also may want to invest in a penis extender (made of squishy rubber
and placed on the penis tip for added length and alternative sensations)
from a sex toy shop; or try
Allurex
for men to expand
your capacity for pleasure and intensify your erections. A bigger,
better, longer lasting erection can feel like you’ve grown in size.
Getting harder and staying hard go a long way (no puns now) to extend
your pleasure as a lover with your gal pal.
And if you are woman reading
this, encourage your guy to learn the best oral and manual touch for you
to soar to the clouds in the skies. Together. Brings back the song,
“Wherever we go, whatever we do, we’re gonna go through it together…..” Have fun!
Love and live positively,
Dr. Patti Britton
