Regain Your Relationship Mojo -
With Feng
Shui
Even if you're deeply in love with your partner, there will be times
when it feels like you are miles apart. This is natural, but that
doesn't make it any less uncomfortable. To help you maintain a healthy
and peaceful relationship, you can use
Feng Shui. As with any
relationship, energy shifts are par for the course. But that doesn't
mean you simply need to endure them in order to regain your relationship
mojo. Why not try to keep the peace all the time?
When the Waters are Rough
Things happen in every relationship that make us upset at the other
person. But in order to restore the happiness we crave, we need to
realize that changes are necessary. As a couple, you can use these Feng
Shui techniques to begin to smooth out the rough patches.
Start by looking at the relationship corner of every room in your home
or apartment - this is the further right hand corner from the doorway.
If things are messy and cluttered, it might be time for some cleaning.
Any chaos in these areas is going to hinder the proper energy flow of
your relationship. Take some time every day to ensure these areas are
clear and clean. You will also want to look in this area to see if you
have any singular images or items present. These can often stimulate the
energy of singular-ness, which is the opposite of what you want in your
relationship.
Together, you might also want to buy a plant that you can nurture
together, just as you want to nurture your relationship. By taking care
of the plant on a daily basis, you can boost the energy that cultivates
your own relationship to each other. Take turns watering the plant and
caring for it - but also take time to nurture the plant together.
Open up the windows of your bedroom as often as you can to let in
healthy new energy. The breeze will help you move out any stagnant
energy, while also infusing your space with peace. This is also a good
time to look around for anything that might be broken in your home.
Broken items attract negative and broken energy - not what you want when
your relationship is suffering. Get rid of these items or fix them.
In addition, you will want to remove anything from your home that might
remind you of bad times in your relationship. These items are only
attracting negative energy back into your relationship - who needs that?
Long Term
Happiness is Simple
Yes, you can live happily ever after. But you still need to do some work
in order to guarantee it. First of all, you want to nurture steady
energy in your relationship - never too high or too low. You can begin
to enhance this steadiness by adding neutral colors to your bedroom.
This doesn't mean you can't have any bright colors, but you should try
to balance that color scheme overall. In addition, if your bedroom is
too feminine or too masculine, you will want to balance this out as
well. You want your bedroom to be as neutral as possible, balancing out
the energies of your relationship.
Try buying new bed sheets to help improve the energy of your
relationship from this point forward. Choosing the bed sheets together
will help you feel rejuvenated and renewed. And start collecting
pictures of your good times together as these will help you whenever the
times get tough again. Keep your bedroom door open too, as much as
possible, to let in new energy and keep your romance alive.
No matter what the state of your relationship is, Feng Shui can help
keep your love feeling like as good as it did when you first found it.
Candace Czarny, ASID, CFM, LEED AP, is an
Interior Designer and Feng Shui Expert.
She would be pleased to personally assist
you with ways to improve a relationship using feng shui.
