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Duds for Dating - The Lure of Blue Jeans
Pam Babbitt, S.I.


 

Levi would be proud. From humble beginnings in 1873, Levi Strauss and Jacob Davis were granted a patent for pants with rivets reinforcing the seams. In Levi’s day, these blue jeans were the standard uniform for farmers, ranchers and miners. Popularity grew steadily, and in 1977 Brooke Shields furthered the trend with her provocative declaration, "You know what comes between me and my Calvins? Nothing." Today, jeans are considered to be the most essential article of clothing in anyone’s closet, regardless of class.

Indigo dye is a big part of the appeal. Blue jeans look as good, or even better when they become faded, and few articles of clothing can make that claim. There is a market for new jeans that look like old jeans, and also for pre-owned jeans waiting to become someone else's new jeans.

The indigo dye is applied to the yarn in layers, and with wearings and washings those layers gradually come off. The result is a sky blue color, which conjures feelings of tender­ness, truth, acces­sibility and friendliness. Denim, with its home­spun, crumpled, im­perfect look, seems easygoing in contrast to smoothed, pressed or creased slacks. Jean clad people are viewed as approachable folks.

The wear and tear of jeans tells a story and most of us are adept at listening. Your basic Levis, faded and worn, usually suggest a person who is active, possibly low maintenance, and comfortable with imperfections. Jeans with holes in places may be sported by someone who is proud of their active lifestyle, has a sense of thrift, or has some disinterest in their personal appearance. Jeans with holes in suggestive places are sug­gestive. If there are patches covering holes, the wearer may be one who doesn't give up and believes in forever relation­ships, or possesses some good ol' Yankee ingenuity. A person wearing cut-offs is meeting their own needs, rather than following the norm. And designer jeans may leave a high main­tenance impression.

The more jeans are worn, the more form-fitting they become. And speaking of impressions, a seasoned people-watcher may be able to detect what is worn or not worn underneath, among other things.

Jeans cling to butts, legs, and they offer another visual treat. No­tice the zipper placket - a straight vertical line traveling down from the waist to meet the horizontal furrows at the crease of the upper thigh, making this intimate intersection very con­spicuous. Kudos Levi!

 

 

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