Sex Myths and Masturbation

Sex Coach Says

Got Integrity?

Accountability and integrity are important to women.  Both promote trust which allows them to relax into their femininity, open their heart, and embrace their sexuality. 

Do what you say you will, and if that isn't possible,  communicate the situation to your partner as soon as you can. 

Don't ignore an issue that you want to go away - it won’t  until you deal with it.  And, often dealing with it is much easier than you antici­pated ... and it gets easier every time.

Pam Babbitt, Sex Coach

 

 

 

 

Join Our Save a Chicken Campaign

OK, I admit it.   We are biased here at Sex Coaching headquar­ters.  Our recent poll showed a strong majority endorsing self-pleasuring over masturbation, commonly known as "choking the chicken."  If you've not yet considered the difference, I hope you will read on, and support our Save a Chicken Campaign. 

Masturbation

to manipulate one's own
genitals, or the genitals of another
for sexual gratification.

Etymology -  1857, Latin roots:
manus - hand, plus turbare - to throw into disorder, to disturb, trouble, defile
a.k.a. choking the chicken

Self-pleasuring
a celebration of pleasure, sensation, creativity, expansion and self-connection.  It fine tunes you erotically and educates you as to your potential. 
a.k.a. erotic self-loving
 

Which term describes your practice -
masturbation or self-pleasuring?
 

Are you ready to make it better than ever?  You can find the best of erotic touch instruction at The New School of Erotic Touch, right.

 

Sex Myths

Pam Babbitt, Sex Coach

1. Being a great lover means being technically skilled.

Good techniques are always appreciated. However, if you want to be a really great lover and also have more sex, better sex, or different sex with your female partner, focus on your heart con­nection. That's the key to being a great lover. A strong heart connection will allow your partner to more fully embrace her femi­ninity and connect with her sexuality.

2. If you want to last longer, get your mind off what is hap­pening and on anything else.

Definitely the wrong plan if you want to last longer! That prac­tice will create a dissociation with your body and your partner – total presence and engage­ment is the path to bliss, and it will help you to last longer.

 

 

 

 

 

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